Organization where you volunteer and for how long?

Active in the Mentoring Moms program of the Volunteer Center of Bergen County since January 2000, Barbara has mentored numerous mothers facing difficult life challenges, including poverty, domestic violence, substance abuse, and mental/physical difficulties. 

Recent work with the organization?

The Mentoring Moms program provides one-on-one mentors to mothers in need of parenting and life skills or who are involved in the state welfare program. Barbara provides a healthy support system to the challenged moms, while encouraging them to deal with these challenges and move toward self-sufficiency. In addition to the time spent with her mentees, she readily offers her experience and knowledge to other mentors in the program. Above all, Barbara offers hope to women sorely in need of a friendly ear and guiding hand.  She most recently has become a member of the Mentoring Advisory Board at the center.

Why did you become a volunteer?

Barbara decided later in life to begin volunteering after a two-year recovery from a stroke that left her unable to return to her full-time, executive position within a major corporation. Feeling somewhat less than worthwhile, her daughter strongly urged her to volunteer helping others do what she had done her whole life — overcome challenges. Her son advised her to find her passion, which she has done 100-fold. Her efforts have not gone unnoticed by her mentees. One mentee, whose prolonged illness and personal problems were out of control, described Barbara as "calm in the midst of the storm, a respite from life’s daunting tasks."

What has been the best part of being a volunteer?

"I’ve worked with moms who had drug and alcohol problems, in addition to mothers with chronic health issues which often presented tremendous challenges. I’ve been fortunate to meet and bond with these women, all who might not have had someone to be there in times of great need, as well as happy times, which should be shared with someone who cares. While mentoring, there have been some trying and frustrating times. I managed not only to see these circumstances through, but have learned great compassion for others, that listening is better than talking and just how lucky I am."